Wife Doesn’t Want Me See Her N/\ked

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I am a Christian.

My wife is 29 and I am 25. We did not have sex while we were courting.

My wife is a strict Christian, and neither of us believed in premarital sex. Although she was not the first person I had sex with, I was the first person to have sex with her.

She was a virgin. I became celibate after I met her and joined her church. When I told the pastor that I liked her, he was surprised. He told me that I would have to come good to convince her that I knew what I was about.

I became friendly with her mother. Her father was a deacon, so a couple of times I took the mother and this young lady home.

One Sunday afternoon after taking them home, they invited me in for a drink and her mother questioned me about my family background.

She found out that she knew my father's relatives. Another time this young lady asked me to do a favour for her and I quickly agreed. By that time, I thought I knew her enough to ask her out on a date.

When I went to pick her up, I told her parents where we were going and they were impressed by that.

One year after becoming friends, we got engaged, and six months after the engagement, we got married.

When it was announced in church that we were engaged, the people were surprised; they congratulated us after the service.

We went for counselling but every time the counsellor talked about sex, my girlfriend used to blush. We had a beautiful, small wedding.

My father-in-law advised us not to spend a lot of money on our wedding and we took his advice.

I had a great struggle with my wife the night after we got married. I tried to undress her and she reminded me that she was older, so I should not undress her.

She wanted all the lights off, so I turned the lights off and I turned away my face because she did not want me to look at her. She went under the sheets at the hotel. I decided to go under the sheets too because I was just playing along. We eventually had sex but for the entire weekend we were at the hotel, she did not allow me to see her naked. Every time I look at her, she would say don't look at me.

I know nothing is wrong with my wife, but it took her a long time to be comfortable with me sexually. I never complained to anybody because I knew she wouldn't like that. To this day my wife does not want me to look at her private part, but I know I have succeeded somehow because she is presently six months pregnant. We are looking forward to our baby boy.

R.K.